that could’ve set bin Laden’s viewpoint into real-world motion. Posted by juliedemboski in Eros, Gemini, Midheaven, Relationship Advice, Venus and Psyche, ≈ Comments Off on What You’re Asking: Eros in Public, An Emo Ghost, and Stalker Synastry, 'Been There, astrology, Done That', Eros, Gemini, Midheaven, real life astrology, relationship, stalkers, Katsushika Hokusai (葛飾北斎) ‘The Lantern Ghost’ c1830 {{PD-Japan-oldphoto}}, This is a re-print from ‘Been There, Done That’, my relationship site; phrases below in italics are taken from internet searches that have brought individuals to my sites.  I hope you enjoy this article (once again, perhaps? During a transit of Eros we may find something more acceptable or understand its attractiveness to others, if it’s something outside our normal appetites–it doesn’t automatically become of sexual interest, but may only allow us to see its appeal. No, just no. Juno in Aspect With the South Node. There’s another point to be gleaned from the story of Eros: yearning to connect with (really to become one with, which is certainly why the Eros energy typically takes a sexual form) the woman Psyche necessitated Eros break from Venus (which Eros did by hiding his paramour from his mother–so his reaction to forming a new kind of relationship, a sexual one, was not mature)—and that suggests that in order to experience Eros we must actually separate from our typical way of forming relationships, even of loving, that passion is not love–showing us again that we cannot truly love what we objectify, simply because the thing objectified becomes a servant to our own erotic needs, and thus cannot be related to as an equal would be in a healthy relationship. Designed by Elegant Themes | Powered by WordPress. The conjunction is, in my opinion, the only aspect that clearly dictates a marriage between these specific people. Create a free website or blog at WordPress.com. I think its most useful function is to alert us to the fundamental change in energy that a body undergoes on changing direction. I heard this is a horrible placement.. we will most likely break up. It does indicate that both partners knew each other in a past life, but other romantic aspects are needed in the chart to create an energy strong enough for a marriage. By the way: Pluto is the 2nd most aspected planet in our synastry with, of course, me being Pluto as well. His Mars is in Aquarius, so his idealized Self is likely an intellectual–this has certainly always been one of the most grating of the Playboy pretensions–and it is quincunx Pluto (see thanatos, above), semi-sextile the Moon in Pisces in the 6th (remember, the 6th is also the House of those who serve us, and his Venus is there, too–I’ll let you parse that out on your own! My Lilith is in Cancer conjunct his Moon by 0 degree and opposite his Saturn by 2 degrees. Next up, Uranus into Taurus and Chiron into Aries. I began, then, to think of rape in terms that perhaps would show some or all of these characteristics in the personality, and thus in the chart. Let’s get something straight: Eros is not an uncontrollable, primal response that arises unbidden, ethereal as an instinct; it’s also not a spontanous indicator, either by its presence in the psyche or the natal chart, of a force of lust that promises ultimate sexual satisfaction. That said, we must acknowledge that your husband’s emotions exist–and it’s important to say this, as it’s easy to pretend that someone not showing emotion doesn’t have emotions. And there’s a problem: each person may feel irrationally that the other person needs to provide something to them–the perceptions, then, are not about the real-life other–all the individual’s attention is trained on themselves, leaving the other person to some extent unseen. Say we see Eros conjoin our Mars. Good luck–. . So, like everything else, context is all–sit back, have a cookie, and don’t worry about it. Almost without exception, I’ve seen contact in the form of conjunction between a personal placement of the child (very often the Moon) and one of the mother’s ‘public’ angles, typically the Midheaven or Ascendant–makes sense, as the birth of a child easily changes the way one presents oneself (ASC) and/ or the public image (MC). Eros conjunct the South Node marries the desire nature to the past–so what we find erotic may have been formed very early or even (if we believe this) in another life. The Moon person brings his heart to the relationship, but, of course, this is excellent for both people. To review: we talked about a natal T-square with Moon-North Node in Aquarius as the arm and an opposition of Jupiter-Mercury to Ascendant-Pallas (you can review the aspect discussion here). For those folks interested in checking for cross aspects between Eros and Psyche, the only software packages I know of that can calculate Eros and Psyche (such as Solar Fire 4) are a wee bit expensive. The Eros person finds the Psyche beautiful, not only on the outside, but on the inside, as well; Eros loves Psyche for her soul. There is no meaning to this phrase, and here’s why: aspects are relative, and bodies gain their meaning in connection to points or bodies, so this is like saying, “A cookie is better.” Better than what? ‘Julie Demboski’s ASTROLOGY’ has almost reached 1.5 million views–thanks, everyone! Saturn conjunct the Nodes can be a separative aspect. This aspect almost certainly speaks to karma from a past life marriage. There are a couple of points here: a device, albeit a magical one, is the initiator of Eros’ love–and that suggests that, though the experience has a magical, out-of-the-blue quality for the individual, it’s really quite deliberate: one must choose the arrow in the first place, one must choose a target and aim, one must shoot–all conscious choices; it’s a fluke that Eros was the recipient of the magical-feeling energy. To have a relationship in which one’s heart is at the center is about the best thing there is. He shows a Grand Trine of the Moon at 00 Cancer trine Vesta at 26 Aquarius trine Neptune at 2 Scorpio–and we might guess that this config might have played out solely within his personal life if all positions had been in Water, but with the addition of Vesta in the intellectually-oriented Air placement of Aquarius we see the elevation of pure, basic emotion (Moon in Cancer) and emotion-keyed ideals/fantasies/delusions, possibly with a destructive bent (Neptune in Scorpio) to the level of philosophy and mental contemplation; and from there, it’s not hard to imagine the ‘action transit’ (a Solar Arc of Mars, perhaps?) And we’ll wrap it up with aspect analysis: Eros conjunct Node  That gives us two possibilities: South and North. mars conjunct ic would be very similar to moon conjunct mars because the ic is the cusp of the 4th house which is ruler of cancer and the moon. 2.Venus Conjunct the NN I don't have an Eros/Node synastry or composite aspect that comes to mind, but Eros is currently conjunct my NN & Sun, with Venus conjunct my natal Eros at the same time, and I just attracted a very powerfully intimate/erotic/deeply familiar connection into my life, with that feeling of worlds instantly colliding & merging. The Moon will glow in rosy shadow as the Total Lunar Eclipse in Leo culminates on January 31. Check out our 40+ page relationship astrology eBook! How Do We Reconcile Placidus with Whole Sign, and Still Love Ourselves in the Morning? He and I get along so well.. i don’t even know what i’ll do if he breaks it off with me. It’s important when looking for answers to our questions using astrology that we understand where and how those answers are available–because if you think the answer to your question will be found one way (by locating a sign) rather than the ‘right’ way (by knowing that life subjects are indicated by Houses) then you’ll waste your time and never find out what you really want to know. In synastry my vertex and natal moon are conjunct my partner’s north node by two degrees. First, relax–nothing suddenly becomes erotically stimulating out of the blue! Eros is involved in what could be considered a definitive complex for this man, with Eros at 18 Capricorn in the 4th, conjunct the South Node–already we have an indication that his concept of the erotic is at the least drawn from a past era or experience, as this was as true upon the founding of his magazine in the ’50s as it is today–already upon his publication’s inception the objectification of women as passive sexual objects was on the way out as an acceptable idea within the Collective. We know that rape is not a crime of sex or desire but a crime of aggression and violence. Sunflower Clock by Athanasius Kircher. I think ‘hate’ is the wrong word here–I think Venus was threatened by Psyche’s beauty, and that would make her both envious (wanting what Psyche has) and jealous (when Venus’ son Eros, whose full attention Venus had up to this point, falls in love with Psyche–Venus wants the attention of Eros, that Psyche now has). First up: Can a Grand Trine be made up of different elements? Lunar Eclipse in Leo. A sense of desire, sexual energy, and a mesmerizing attraction don’t emanate from any individual or object, but exist within our own minds–which means that we are the instruments of erotic perception, rather than that anything is erotic within its own nature. There are many past life synastry charts that don’t show marriage through these 5 obvious aspects, but it’s clear from reading the whole chart that the pair had a significant relationship in a past life. This can have very innocent results–someone super-dedicated to the role they play in life can be the result, the consummate professional who excels because they’re truly dedicated to what they do–or it can bring about the kind of person who participates very eagerly in life–they ‘play the game’ with gusto. If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. I often see this aspect in the charts of couples who have been married for many years. A shade more useful than SIVA-PARAVTI, ZEUS-HERA, RUDRA-KAALI, BRIEDE-GROOM and ADONIS-INNANEN. The South Node person helps the Descendant person further their goals and individuality. There also may be identification with the Arts or the spiritual, through both the individual ‘I Am’ and through the fact that this chart belongs to a male. The opposite is also true: when a planet goes direct by Secondary Progression we typically see leaps forward in either the understanding of or in dealing with the energy. The BEST Aspects To Have Conjunct the North Node in Synastry. My Pluto is in the 9th house; his is in the 7th. Here’s my thought: if you’re asking the question, then you’re not feeling secure in the relationship–so the next issue becomes, Is it you, or is it him? It would be unusual for them not be involved in synastry and… We have many clues about this in the story of the demi-god Eros and how he falls in love with the mortal Psyche. The North Node is one of two “Nodes of the Moon” that are marked on a personal natal chart. Completely scared about that. A recent past life will influence every bit of the relationship you have now. THE GIFT OF FEAR by Gavin de Becker is essential reading for all women in our society, and gives excellent descriptions that will help your instincts overcome your programming. I’ll let a small excerpt from my forthcoming Moon book take it from here: Mr. X, as we know, has “a 10th House Aquarius Moon that is only 7 minutes off exact conjunction to his North Node, part of a Grand Cross involving Ceres-South Node, Mercury-Jupiter, and Pallas-Ascendant. If we’re talking about cross-chart contact, the stronger connector is by far one party’s Eros to the other party’s South Node–and this may be whirly-swirly with conflicting ideas and motivators; with Eros in one chart conjunct North Node in another, this could bring the Eros person into the picture as he or she looks to further the other’s life course, so overall this contact may feel a little user-y, with the Eros person being the ‘giver’ and the Node person the one receiving all the benefit (even as the Eros person desires to help). The Moon is one’s heart. Eros in Synastry but focusing on the easy aspects such as Trines, Sextiles and Conjunctions. Look at the rest of your life. as well as to the signs and houses. Note that the South Node is included here but it’s not written as such; Pluto Opposite the North Node – for example – is Pluto conjunct the South Node. Contact between the Jupiter of one with a personal placement of the other (often Sun–identity–or Moon–mothering or role as mother) is common, with Jupiter in this instance representing the social role or place in society. Karmic astrology synastry is suddenly really interesting when you want to look at your own relationship. For instance, Uranus is always retrograde when it is opposed the Sun; this, then, has its own meaning, and keeps the focus on the relationship between the two bodies. It could be a case of believing the other person is important completely out of proportion to the actual relationship and independent of what one can do for the other–and that’s the most important thing, to determine if these are just wacky connections that feel vital but in the end lead nowhere, or if they’re an impetus to playing truly pivotal roles in each other’s lives (so once again, we can’t really tell from just one aspect!). Positive aspects speak to a generally happy marriage, but there is still karma to be worked out now. ), We also know that an Aquarius Moon can confuse emotions with thoughts, and vice versa; add that inclination to a loose Finger of God with base of Sun-Venus and Mars-Neptune, apex Sedna in the 12th, and we get a description of someone who is at once totally aware of the nonsense he proclaims (he knows he’s not God, nor Love Incarnate), as well as at the same time being significantly deluded about who he is and what he does, particularly about what his actions mean—and it all feeds out into the Cosmos, through his ‘blind spot’ behaviors (Sedna in 12th).”. Hope you’ve enjoyed this first installment of ‘What You’re Asking.’ See more about Eros in relationship in my book, THE ASTROLOGY OF INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP. Keep in mind that conjunctions are the most important, but other aspects can occasionally speak to marriage. Sometimes we cannot get our partner, when he’s in this state, to speak in any meaningful way about existing circumstances, and in this case, it falls to you to decide how you feel (regardless of his feelings–after all, your feelings aren’t dependent on his, are they? Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email. His Saturn does not conjunct my Mars in Capricorn by degree but my Mars shows up as an opposition to his Moon by degree (although a wide opposition). I'm guessing we were lovers and he screwed me over big time, it doesn't help the my moon is opposite my NN and I always felt like I was stuck emotionally in the past and meeting the first guy was like ripping of an old band aid I never knew I had. You can gather the tone of the marriage based on the planets involved and the sign that they’re in. I will make another post on oppositions and squares. . Whether they are long-life friends, family members or lovers with a great impact in our life, the Node contacts will always be present. Making Purchases During Mercury retrograde: Q & A, Follow Julie Demboski's ASTROLOGY on WordPress.com, HEKATE IN THE NATAL CHART: A LITTLE BACKGROUND + AN EXAMPLE, We Are All Vessels: VESTA IN THE NATAL CHART, My latest article for Dell HOROSCOPE on entrepreneurs, Washington State Astrological Association. There’s a brief quiz at the end of the post; that’s where the answer to our example is–or have you already figured it out? The first guys Venus conducted my south node with a tight orb of 0 and his south node conjucted my moon and his mars squared my north node. If this is in a natal chart, it could suggest a high degree of Self-satisfaction and a feeling of Self-completion, good for confidence but unlikely to support positive relationship interaction, simply because one may lack a driving need for another–look at the state of Venus and Mars, the state of the 7th of all others, as well as the overall Sun picture, to determine the possible impact. You don’t say whether this is a synastric aspect between charts or in a single natal chart, so, synastry first: since Eros and Psyche were happily married, this could be one interpretive suggestion, though beware jealous and possessive mothers-in-law, catty sisters, and hot oil lamps. New Moon in Aquarius 11 February 2021 What Are We Waiting For? We can’t even say, ‘in aspect Ceres acts like this’ because she will act differently with different energies–quincunx a partner’s Mars, perhaps, she may come across as motherly, and if she doesn’t adjust (quincunx) she’ll quash any potential romance; quincunx one’s own Pluto, one may be drawn to gardening, nature conservancy, baking, basket weaving, or negotiating quite early in life. The response of the MC person will depend largely on that person’s feeling about receiving that erotic projection; if it fits their own ideas about themselves, they may thoroughly enjoy it–if it’s at odds with the way they see themselves (or the way they believe the other person should perceive them) then it can be a disquieting experience to interact with the Eros individual–minds will be changed, or the MC person will beat feet out of there fast, out of sheer discomfort! Earth Sign Astrology | Earth Signs vs. Sun Signs In The Birth Chart, A Guide To Chiron Aspects In The Natal Chart, The Best Zodiac & Astrology Wallpaper For Your iPhone. What little we’ve talked about draws a relatively unflattering portrait of a man who in many ways created his empire more out of fear than a true ‘philosophy’–but is this really surprising? More on Eros is available in my book, THE ASTROLOGY OF INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP, at Dog and Sunflower Press (links at right) and if you’d like to look up your Eros http://www.astro.com/swisseph/eros.htm. Maybe we like outdoor-sy men, those who farm, who like to work with their hands, or do our Mars in Virgo tastes run more toward sexy accountants or writers? The Nodes of the Moon, the North Node and the South Node are not planetary bodies, but rather points formed by the Moon’s orbit around the Earth, intersecting with the Earth’s path around the Sun. Posted by juliedemboski in 11th House, Aspect Delineation, aspects and placements, astrology, Astrology of Careers Vocations and Callings, Eros, Grand Cross/Grand Square, What You're Asking, Józef Chełmoński – ‘Noc gwiaździsta’ {{PD}}. So if you are looking at a synastry chart and see planets conjunct the South Node, don’t panic. You get the picture. Only you know for sure. They are able to express their desire because the sun sheds some light on the thoughts of Eros. First, you know I use Arcturus as the planet Psyche, not the designated asteroid, based on Michael Munkasey’s work, and I do this because it works. And if they are, then it’s high time this relationship was examined, anyway). Look at the tone of your relationship. Descendant-South Node/Ascendant-North Node: This is a very powerful synastry connection, often found in the charts of “soulmates.” This is a very special, karmic bond, which indicates the two of you have formed relationships over several lifetimes. Sometimes we project our own proclivities onto others; in this case, you might be prone to stray yourself, or, more likely, you might be unreliable, and this could translate into a need to constantly be reassured in whatever life area you are least secure, in this case, the romantic one. Most karmic astrology synastry reports don’t take Chiron into account nearly enough. What I wanted to know first was what past lives we had together. To make it simple for those of you who are on the same path, I’ve rounded up the top 5 placements that indicate a past life marriage. It just illustrates the idea that a woman who tries to destroy another woman hates a little part of herself–not a pretty picture at all. mars will spark fire in ics most vulnerable spots. or through a twisted use of the Neptunian charm, ability to obscure, to delude, to present an illusory image to others. Eros Synastry Aspects: The asteroid, Eros, represents erotic love, sex, passion and intimacy. Still, so much depends on how these individuals use their energies, that just having some of these contacts doesn’t necessarily promise obsession–whew! i have a post about moon conjunct mars. Emotions certainly have driven his life direction—as has a deep need to prove his power and authority (Ceres—he loved to present himself to followers as a force of Nature, even as Love itself, easy to persuade susceptible others of this with the Sun-Venus conjunction in the 7th); too, his communications had a ‘larger than life’ quality (Merc-Jupiter—certainly, he claimed more than once he was the Messiah, speaking as Jupiter, that is, as a god), with a persona that persuaded others he was intelligent and skilled (Pallas-ASC)—presenting someone wise, to be listened to, served, even worshiped.”, There we see something of the life reflected in the chart. How Do We Reconcile Placidus with Whole Sign, and Still Love Ourselves in the Morning? Squares and oppositions between Saturn and Juno can speak to a difficult relationship in the past, and there’s some potential for this difficulty to be repeated unless both people are committed to working through their issues and working on the relationship. Venus conjunct other person’s South Node (opposite other person’s North Node), or square the other person’s Nodes A feeling of instant affection is likely between the two of you. We also have my Eros conjunct his Psyche by 0 degree. With the North Node, this suggests that the desire nature may be a driving force behind our destined direction, and thus our life choices. You may recall from previous articles that in my view Eros is more of a projection than anything else, an eroticization of someone or something; as such, you choose the object; keep that in mind as we look at the chart of Playboy founder Hugh Hefner (9 April 1926, 4:20 PM, Chicago IL USA). This was likely a more romantic or sexual relationship instead of something that sustained itself day to day. as a combination of lust fulfillment, objectification, and the ‘appropriate’ expression of sexuality, defined as within a heterosexual Universe where the male is the aggressor and the female is a two-dimensional supplicant. then we can make a few guesses. To me, this is always a fundamental place to start. This is another clear-cut past life astrology marriage aspect, although it isn’t as heavy. I have found that when someone’s personal planets make strong aspects to someone else’s natal Eros, a strong sexual bond and attraction is indicated. at the midpoint of Eros/ Sun. We can say that his Soul intent and his erotic nature meet in his ‘ideal woman,’ who, ruled by Neptune, is either malleable, illusory, or whatever his imagination says she is! That doesn’t mean you’ve never been married. Unlike Juno/Saturn aspects, Juno in aspect with the South Node does not necessarily indicate that marriage in this life will be a force. When a planet that has been direct all one’s life goes retrograde by Secondary Progression, the internal form of the energy seems to be drawn back in upon itself; these periods almost always insist on a long, slow mulling of the forms the energy takes in the life, and, eventually, modifications that bring it forward once more. And that suggests that he’s either feeling alienated from his own emotions (via depression) or that he is hiding his feelings from you. So what can we expect from a transit? Don’t confuse Eros with love; it is, instead, focused desire with the intention to possess that upon which it’s fixed–and though sometimes that feels like love, it’s really a type of projection, a decision to mentally overlay the person or object (because yes, they call fetishes and toys and talismans and such ‘erotica’ for a reason!) What are the signs that a Capricorn male has lost interest? This only works with a synastry chart, and (as always) is simply my own opinion! The 12th house is all about past life astrology, so the planets can always be applied to past lives as well as the current life. Both square my Sun in Libra. In the synastry chart between myself & one who is very possibly my soulmate, I found: my Psyche conjunct his Moon & North Node, my Saturn conjunct his Vertex & Lilith, my Vertex & MC conjunct his Saturn, my Juno & Eros conjunct his Uranus, my Adonis, Part of Fortune & Moon conjunct his Sappho & AC, my name-asteroid conjunct his name-asteroid, Examples of Eros in action, along with the full story of Eros, Venus, and Psyche, are available in my book THE ASTROLOGY OF INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP  http://dogandsunflower.wordpress.com  Thanks, have a great Friday, and come back for the Weekend Forecast! The North Node … To that end I’m creating a new feature, ‘What You’re Asking,’ that will on a weekly basis explore some of this material, and some of the topic queries, in a question and answer format. You’ll have to use your judgement here. They’re human, aren’t they? I’m not sure how to unravel all this, but it would seem to give a great deal of weight to the soul’s journey in this life, both in my own life and in the relationship – eight years strong and very happy – though admittedly a lot of hard work and self-transformation has gone into that. See an example here. In some past life, at some point, we’ve been married to almost everyone we’ve dated or had some type of relationship with. The Venus conjunct South Node composite chart situation is different from synastry in that the relationship itself as its very own unit will feel familiar and comfortable at first followed by a sense of lack of evolvement later on, while in synastry, it is usually the Venus person who will tend to hold back the South Node person. Venus is sesquiquadrate Earth and semi-square Sun and Eros–this suggests that he felt compelled to deal with his Venus issues (and to make money from it, as they’re intertwined here), in order to succeed in both material and Soul purposes–and yet the aspects themselves say that the challenge was in doing this in a positive way–I think the Collective jury’s out on whether what he’s done has any worth beyond the exploitative. The Ascendant conjunct the NN–the Ascendant person will help the NN … I think Chiron is extremely important in any synastry chart because it speaks to the deepest wounds created between two people. With a less healthy Cappy, this may show as an end to trying to make you conform to certain standards, no more dictation of your agenda or priorities, and no more judgment, ‘rules,’ or suppression–and it may take a minute, but soon you’ll feel the blessed relief of having his cloven hoof removed from your back! I imagine by now you’ve got a much more dimensional picture of someone than you had on reading that first, single aspect description. Saturn draws the couple together due to karma, but Juno and South Node aspects offer more of a choice. I remember the first time I discovered how to read a synastry chart; I worked with mine and my boyfriend’s for about 6 hours. Posted by juliedemboski in astrology, Eros, Venus, Eros as an energy that carries one away on a wave of passion outside the individual’s judgment and control is an idea I keep seeing put forward, and I feel compelled to poke some holes in such a Self-serving definition–it brings to mind those who say, when confronted with their highly un-loving choices, “But we’re in love!” Disloyalty, betrayal, or lacking respect for existing relationships is not a foundation of love, but of Self-indulgence, and it seems that these same people are the ones who want to point the finger and say, “Eros made me do it!” Well, all I can say is, that excuse doesn’t fly.

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